Toth Talk

Leadership Matters

Leader Speeder

clock December 16, 2011 11:18 by author Chip Toth

Dear Leader,

Jump in my car with me and you will find a NYS Speeding Ticket sitting on my dashboard which serves as a reminder of a recent law violation. I was driving the New York State Thruway doing about 75 mph while also carrying on a significant client conversation via cell phone. As I multi-tasked along I did happen to see from my left side peripheral vision a State Police car parked in the middle median. Soon I pulled over to await the penalty for my breaking of the law. $300 and six points on my license! And that was just the beginning. Within a month New York State sent me a letter requiring another $300 for having six points on my license. They call this an “assessment”. $600 for my law breaking actions. Ouch! And of course there was still my wife Jennifer to report this whole mess and cost to.

I need to be transparent with you about a condition that is not yet right within me. I like to drive fast, I like to multi-task, and I like to pack my schedule in order to maximize productivity each day. Yet there is something going on much deeper that drives such behavior: an inner drive to attach my worth to my work, my personal identity to my productivity. Really, the “speeding thing” had little to do with getting to my appointment on time or initiating a critical conversation with my client that just could not wait. Truly, that day and at that time, I was taking action to satisfy my inner drive for worth.  And I suspect many of you can identify with me in this area.

So, the speeding ticket sits in plain view there in my car. And it serves me in several ways: One, it reminds me that my work (and productivity) will never be a satisfactory basis for my worth. I should and do enjoy my work tremendously but it cannot define who I am. Two, it reminds me that I need to be disciplined in all areas of my life, including driving. I cannot consult and coach others in such areas as integrity or honesty while at the same time willfully breaking the government’s laws. And Three, it reminds me to slow my life down, to live and work with a proper amount of margin such that I become someone who breathes life and refreshment into others.

This weekend Christians all over the earth will celebrate Christmas with its simple and counter cultural message: God comes to love on and hang with driving sinners like me, like you. He assigns us worth apart from our work by imparting a “love of another kind” that becomes the whole basis for our worth, dignity, and purpose in life. In Him, we can finally rest, and work, with great peace and power.

Slow down.  Rest.  Have Joy.  You have worth apart from your work.  Merry Christmas!

Your friend and partner,

Chip

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What's the Story of Your Organization?

clock August 27, 2010 11:47 by author Chip Toth

My family recently held a reunion for the Toths. 32 people representing 4 generations met to boat, hike, eat, sing, and talk together. This particluar reunion included a new component: sharing family stories. At the conclusion of the first day's meal my "silent generation" parents shared stories from their heritages that capture long held family values. I remember vividly the story of my grandfather who went bankrupt in the Great Depression, yet once recovered financially, returned to all his creditors to pay every penny back. Integrity! Or, on the other side, a grandfather who bought groceries and shoveled the driveway for an elderly neighbor. Compassion! The next night the "Boomer" generation shared our stories of heritage, and the third night the "Busters"/"Millenials" their stories. Stories laden with our enduring values, our roots, our identity as a family. As you can imagine this turned out to be a powerful exercise for the Toths in galvanizing and energizing our sense of pride and commitment to our past, present, and future.

Leader, what is your organization's story? How clear and compelling is it? How often do you speak it to inject focus, meaning, and commitment with in your people?

Steven Sample ("The Contrarian's Guide To Leadership") states: "An important asset for any leader to have as he works to inspire and motivate his followers is a credible creation story for the organization or movement he's leading." Sample goes on to state his "creation story" for USC, the university he led and developed as President. We remember stories and find inspiration for our work.  Stories such as Hewlett and Packard working in a garage (work with what you have, small beginnings can have great outcomes), Washington humbly enduring the elements with his troops at Valley Forge (servant leadership, identify closely with your front-line people), Rosa Parks challenging status quo discriminatory practices on the bus in Alabama (stand for what is right, no matter the cost), Larry Page and Sergey Brin meeting on the Stanford campus to later form a company we know as Google (think creatively, act on your dreams).

Organizational Stories provide roots (where we have come from), give present meaning (why do we exist), and give inspiration for the future (we are a force for change in society). Great leaders tell, and tell again, and retell their organization's story utlizing various mediums, symbols, and testimonials to focus and inspire their workforce.

If your story is unclear I encourage the following:

1. Revisit the past: collect stories from the creators of your business (defining moments, significant breakthrough events, challenges that required incredible perseverance)

2. Draft a first version "creation story" for your organization

3. Ask key senior leaders as well as emerging leaders to provide feedback to the story: (is it compelling, does it inspire, is it relevant, is it transcendent, and does it foster pride?)

4. Commit yourself to intentionally share the story creatively and frequently

If your story is clear but obscure to your people:

1. Recognize that creation stories that reside in brochures are relatively powerless when compared to running the story through a passion-driven human messenger: YOU

2. Take steps 3 and 4 above

Your partner to inspire the world, one leader at a time,

Chip

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About the author

Chip Toth

Chip Toth is an experienced leader in both corporate and not for profit organizations. He has coached numerous C level executive leaders to develop personal leadership and build leadership depth within their companies. Keynote speeches, leadership training, assessments. Chip's website can be found at http://leadersinspire.net  

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